Hi, I'm Tamaey, and I'm so happy you've stopped by to get to know a bit about me. I find that the more vulnerable and open we are, the more we begin to know, like, and trust a person which then potentially leads to working together. I'm not sure if that will happen with us, but I hope by sharing my story it will remind you that there is nothing you cannot BE, DO, or HAVE, I'm living proof of that.
I was born in Fayetteville, NC during the "cultural decade" of the 1960s with the John F. Kennedy assassination and the Beatles' arrival in the United States. My mother was a waitress and my father was a dishonorably discharged serviceman who became a bus driver for Trailways.
My father was an abusive alcoholic, and my mother was a dis-empowered woman who simply fell in love. My mother eventually left my father, with three little kids under the age of five, moving us back to Indiana to be surrounded and supported by her parents and sister.
Long story short, I spent the next ten years of my life in an 8 x 24 foot trailer with no running water or electricity! YES, ten long years with the four of us in that trailer.
I've forgotten most of what happened during that time in my life, intentionally. It was, as you can imagine, dysfunctional in every way. There were many, many times throughout my early years that there was simply no food, no warm clothing, and no father to ensure that all would be well.
I'm still dumbfounded that my mother was able to take care of three little kids, work, and maintain her sanity all by herself. Today, at 80 years old, she still amazes me. Her strength, courage, and utter determination to succeed are in large part the reason I AM who I AM today, Thanks, mama!
I want you to know that your story and your history do not determine your NOW - nor your future. Or, at least, they don't have to.
My history of trauma and dysfunction set the stage for growth and learning opportunities that I couldn't understand at the time. To escape, I would often go into a dream world where love and light became my best friends. Even though I didn't understand it at the time, the higher realms were with me during my darkest hours. I would often wonder WHY is my life so sad and scary and WHY do I feel so alone?
I spent most of my adult life feeling unworthy, full of fear, with no sense of safety or support.
I'm not sure why I made the choices (or when those choices were made) to heal my heart. As I think back now, I do remember an internal longing for more. I began to search with amazing help (from the higher realms) along the way, always guiding me even though I didn't know it at the time.
After many years and many therapists, coaches, mentors, and teachers, I can now say that I AM whole (don't get me wrong, there is NO getting there but at least I'm on my path) and committed to my awakening (ascension) journey.
Our challenges can become our greatest strengths and our struggles can be a catalyst for living our best lives possible. It takes time, commitment, and dedication, but if you are called there is no turning back. And, if you ASK, you WILL be guided, effortlessly.
Are you being called to heal those parts of you that are blocking the magnificence of who you ARE from flowing in? Are you already on your path and feel stuck, uncertain, or unsure?
If so, I get it, I've been there too.
As you walk your path one step at a time (and sometimes, one step forward two steps back) you will, piece by piece, begin to see the tapestry of your life in a way you've perhaps not seen before. Everything will begin to make sense and you will understand the challenges of your past and how, without them, you would not be the person you are today.
I now see how relevant my history is to my NOW and how it has gifted me so much knowledge, understanding, and wisdom today. In short, I'm beginning to get it and I'm guided to now share my experiences with those who are ready to awaken at a deeper level too.
You ARE all the good you observe in the world. There is no separation. You ARE Source. You ARE a powerful Creator and you ARE here to create any reality of your choosing. The ONLY thing that separates you from that is a lifetime of programs, patterns, and beliefs buried deep within the subconscious. Reprogram those and watch miracles and magic becomes your new reality.
He said to them, “For truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, move from here to there, and it will move and nothing will be impossible for you.” ~ Matthew 17:20 ESV
I hope I've inspired you to have the courage to heal your wounds and to claim what's been there all along - it's time.
Here's the professional version if you're curious.
Tamaey Gottuso, PhD, is a distinguished Personal Growth Facilitator, Life Transformation Coach, and Health & Wellness Expert with over 25 years of experience. Passionate about helping individuals discover their deepest passions and purpose, she excels at identifying and addressing the root causes of lack and limitation. Through her services and skill set, Tamaey empowers clients to overcome these barriers, enabling them to realize their highest potential.
As a leader in personal transformation, Tamaey specializes in soul acceleration, guiding clients to synergize their strengths and manifest their dreams. Her work is deeply rooted in the belief that personal growth and holistic living are essential to a fulfilling life.
A dedicated yogi, vegetarian, and nature enthusiast, Tamaey embodies the principles she teaches, living and leading by example. Her grounded, relatable approach not only inspires but also effectively mentors others to lead purposeful and fulfilling lives. This unique combination of personal integrity and professional expertise makes her a trusted guide for those seeking profound and transformative life changes.